Another sign of Mom

In a previous post, I mentioned how our deceased loved ones communicate with us and one of the ways is through songs. Today, I heard "Flashdance, What a Feeling" by Irene Cara on the way home. That was one of Mom's favorite songs. I heard it on 80s on 8 on XM. A few minutes later, "Down Under" by Men At Work came on. That's one of my favorites. :)

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